Joseph Szoke January 15, 2025

My condolences to Tom’s family and friends. Tom was a great friend during our time at Walsh Jesuit. He was always fun to be around and quick to laugh, either with you or at you depending on the situation. Rest in peace, Tom, you will be remembered. Joe Szoke, Class of ‘81

Cindy Brown January 15, 2025

Tom gave me so many beautiful memories, taught me lessons I didn't even know I needed to learn and added so much to my life. He is a point of light in my life I will never forget. Rest in peace dear Tom.

Jerry and David January 16, 2025

This is very hard. To start, my deepest condolences to the Bohley family. Tom was my/our best friend friend from day one. I met my husband David because of Tom. Tom met Mark Miller because of David and me. Tom was more than a best friend, he was family to us. The most loving, kind, sincere guy you could know. He was extremely artistic, an absolutely amazing cook and a true confident. My heart is heavy with loss. I truly hope you are at peace my brother. We love and miss you.

David and Jerry January 17, 2025

Tom- you will always be a light in my/our lives. Your unconditional love, friendship and support over the 27 plus years will leave a void that none can fill. You were there for so many events and you became part of our family. My deepest sympathy to your family. I know you’re with Mark and your mom having a martini for happy hour. Rest in power. D.

Michael Rich January 15, 2025

My heartfelt condolences to Tom’s loved ones. Tom, “Boles”, was a treasured friend and fellow student at Walsh Jesuit High School, Stow Ohio. I have wonderful memories of Tom’s quick wit and joyful laugh. Throughout my adult life, I have frequently looked back on those cherished times, always with a smile…I am forever grateful to have shared those special years with him. Tom, you were just an all around good guy…RIP my friend. Michael Rich Class of ‘81

Maria Vahtel and Will C January 17, 2025

, New Mexico

My condolences to the Bohley family. I'm deeply saddened to know Tom is no longer a minute walk away. Tom was a true friend, a strong person and one I turned to for logic checks and coping with politics through jokes and yet reason. Tom and Mark and their happy hours pulled me through some of the hardest times of my life, and I will be eternally grateful to them both. Until we meet again, Uncle Duckie. Love you and miss you

Dyann January 19, 2025

I cannot believe he is gone. I cannot believe it has been over a week. I have been awash in memories, so many memories, so many stories. He was everything everyone said he was and more. I don’t know that there is anything I can write or enough adjectives to capture who he was in this world. The world is a little dimmer now. My deepest condolences to his family and others who knew him.

Veronica January 20, 2025

My heartfelt condolence to Tom’s family and friends. Words cannot take away the pain of loss, but I hope you find solace in knowing there are people who care about you. Tom was an awesome friend and confidant. He taught me a lot. I had a lot of great laughs, moments, memories, and conversations that I will always cherish. May he Rest in Peace with Mark, Mrs. Bohley, and Mardi Gras Gras. Tom will be missed beyond measure. Love you forever Pitufo.

Robin and Ted Stavroff February 17, 2025

Sending love to you all in you time of loss. I could write a book on my life with bobo. Starting at blossom music center, East Cleveland roomies, trip to Cincinnati zoo with Pam. When got the email today about his passing my heart skipped a beat, a beat just like it did the first time I saw him. A friend I will miss. Love you bunches.

Dina (Gonzalez) Lyon April 02, 2025

I know I’m a lot late, Tom would not be surprised! I have a hard time thinking about him not being there when I want to share how excited I am that I guessed a Masked Singer correctly. I almost sent him a text the other day, and then I remembered. My favorite memory of Tom would have to be the day my daughter Alyxxa was born. He was right there by my side providing comic relief. I’ve never seen him so scared. Ironically he went in to nursing many years later. That always made me chuckle. I am going to miss him so very much!! Condolences to the family. We lost someone special.